‘Anything Uncle Bob did, he did it with humble excellence’: Bob Mesher fondly remembered

Former Makivik magazine editor, photographer, musician died over the weekend

Bill Flowers and Bob Mesher play together at the Kuujjuaq airport in 2009 after they attended the funeral of Bob’s brother, Stewart Mesher. (Photo courtesy of Joey Murdoch-Flowers)

By Jane George

The sudden death of writer, editor, musician, and photographer Bob Mesher has left a huge hole among his friends and his large extended family, which stretches from Iqaluit to Kuujjuaq and Nunatsiavut.

“Uncle Bob was among the best people I knew,” said his nephew, Iqaluit lawyer Joey Murdoch-Flowers, about Mesher, 62.

Mesher, whose full name was William Robert, was born in Labrador, the son of Victor and Dorothy (Berthe) Mesher from Nunavik.

He died over the weekend in Happy Valley–Goose Bay, Labrador, at 62.

Mesher grew up in Happy Valley–Goose Bay and studied at Montreal’s Dawson College. After college, he moved back North to work with the Makivik Corp. in Kuujjuaq, where his sister, Emily, mother, Dorothy Mesher, and other relatives still live.

For 21 years, Mesher edited Makivik News and its successor, Makivik Magazine.

He wrote more than 60 stories in these publications, which also included his photographs of places, people and events in Nunavik and beyond.

“I never quite knew where Uncle Bob was, because he always seemed to be travelling and moving,” Murdoch-Flowers said.

“He lived in Happy Valley–Goose Bay, Dorval, Montreal, Kuujjuaq, Ville St. Laurent, back to Kuujjuaq, back to Montreal, and back to Labrador.

“He often told me about his trips for work, all around Inuit Nunangat, around the circumpolar world, and to the Appalachians to study and practise stringed instruments. ”

Mesher was an accomplished guitar and banjo player, too.

“It seemed that anything Uncle Bob did, he did it with humble excellence: building a house, playing stringed instruments, learning new skills, and loving and caring for his family,” Murdoch-Flowers said.

In 1998, Mesher co-wrote the film script for “Capturing Spirit. The Inuit Journey,” with Sheila Watt-Cloutier, Tarqralik Partridge and Gail Richardson. He was also the creative director for this film, which portrayed the life challenges facing Inuit youth.

After leaving Makivik, Mesher moved to Montreal to work on his master’s degree in education technology at Concordia University and also published his first book, a trilingual (English, French, Inuktitut) photo essay on Labrador, believed to be the first book of photography published by a Nunavik Inuk.

“I’ve heard stories about funny and amazing things he did, too,” Murdoch-Flowers said. “How he locked himself out of the house one winter’s night in Kuujjuaq in only a bathrobe and rubber boots, and had to run across town to go to mom’s place.

Bob Mesher, shown here in a self-portrait from 2014.

“Another time he walked from Happy Valley to Rigolet, though that trip, I believe, was planned. And he told me about how he had made a beaded, fringed deerskin vest in the 1970s, bartered it in Labrador, and then found it again at a church basement sale in Dorval in the 1990s. Apparently he was also a great cake decorator.”

Mesher also renovated a cabin on Range Road in Kuujjuaq with recycled materials, and built a house in Happy Valley.

In Happy Valley, Mesher scavenged discarded construction materials from torn-down buildings on the Canadian Armed Forces base in Goose Bay, and used them to build a modest house.

It had no bedrooms to speak of, Murdoch-Flowers said, but it had a porch, kitchen-dining room, a bathroom and a dirt crawl space that smelled like tar-treated wood and sand.

The front door was painted with an odd metallic silver paint. It closed with a hook and eye, instead of a doorknob or deadbolt.

“I grew up there in what my family called ‘the little house,'” Murdoch-Flowers said. “My parents separated and mom had three children to look after. Dad got the house, so Uncle Bob let us stay in the little house. Uncle Bob provided me with one of the most important things in life: a stable home. I knew that we were safe there.”

Later, Murdoch-Flowers would thank his uncle for what he gave him and his family.

“I realize that with the foundation he gave me in life, I felt safe and stable,” he said.

“I believe that foundation was important in giving me direction in life. Without Uncle Bob’s love, kindness, support, and care, I wouldn’t be where I am today: safe, healthy, caring, stable.”

The last time Murdoch-Flowers’s father, Bill Flowers, saw Mesher was in 2009, at the funeral for Bob’s brother Stewart, who died of cancer.

On their way home, at the airport, they pulled out their instruments and began to play.

Mesher died by suicide in Happy Valley this past weekend.

His niece, Allison Flowers-Myland, remembers her uncle as “encouraging, never pretentious or uppity, always kind and gentle.”

She posted an open message to her uncle: “I miss you so much. You will be in my heart forever, Uncle Bob. Thank you for being a beautiful human being. You brought us joy, humour, strength, music, family, the tangible and the intangible. I can’t fathom this world without you. I love you with all my heart, and so wish I told you once more just how very much.”

As of yet, no funeral plans have been announced.

If you feel distressed or have had thoughts of suicide, there is help available. Call the Kamatsiaqtut Help Line to speak to someone in English or Inuktitut at 1-800-265-3333.

Share This Story

(6) Comments:

  1. Posted by Mike Barnes on

    I worked with Bob at the base in Goose Bay briefly a few years ago. He was a smart quiet considerate individual. Sad to hear of his sudden passing. Deepest Condolences to his family and close friends. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Rest In Peace Bob.

    11
  2. Posted by Mitzi Wall on

    This is so well written. Thank you for showing what I always knew. Bobby was a wonderful talented and caring person. Very loyal to the people in his life and full of adventure. He was my lifelong friend who always had a special spot in my heart. You leave behind a large group of people who will always miss you my friend.
    My sincere condolences to all of Bobby’s family and friends. Rest easy my friend. Forever in my heart. I could hear you say to me , how cute is that. It was an honour to have you in my life

    12
    2
  3. Posted by Nephew on

    All I can say is that this comes to a great shock to us(the family). He always seemed headstrong and busy. One of the sweetest, loving, kind uncles I have.. if not the sweetest, loving and kindest. He was a very intelligent guy that kept his words short. There wasn’t nothing he did to ever put himself at harm. He didn’t drink, do drugs, smoke tobacco, nothing. Air, water, healthy food, music, and anything slightly interesting would get all his time. A true student of life. A straight shooter. A great guy. Nothing about anybody would make him judge them for their wrong doings. I’ve never heard a bad word out of his mouth. Only the slight laugh and gentle voice. It’s heart breaking knowing he felt this bad to have taken his own life. I truly wish he didn’t.

    12
  4. Posted by Charlie on

    Bob was the kindest person I know a great friend a great musician most importantly a great explorer in everything he does with great deal humble attitude and great respect for others I’ll always cherish all the days I jammed with him RIP friend ❤️Thank you Bob Mesher🙏

  5. Posted by Yvan Pouliot on

    I had the priviledge of meeting Bob on few occasions. When I worked in Kuujjuaq, I had given him a roll of liner for the camp he was building with salvaged material. He was so grateful for this little gift. In 2005, I participated with him in a cruise ship expedition for the clean-up of a former exploratory mining site near Aupaluk. Bob was a gentleman with everyone and always ready to help. I have very good memories of the moments I spent with him, so I was quite shocked when I learned of his sudden death. I have some photographs of him I would be pleased to share upon request.

  6. Posted by Bob fan on

    Rock on Bob in them old sweet clouds of heaven!

Comments are closed.