Homophobia hurts gay youth

I was disappointed to see Mr. Ridpath’s letter (Letters, Jan. 2) and the lack of understanding conveyed by an individual who holds a position that allows such close access to the personal lives of northern families.

Perhaps Mr. Ridpath needs to take a sober second look at “choice” and reevaluate his own responsiblity in regards to some of the anguish he so casually speaks of.

I applaud northern youth and I have been awed over the years at how hard they struggle to survive, to find themselves, to express who they are and discover their innate gifts and contributions to their communities, their families and their culture.

Youth everywhere struggle – we know it’s part of the journey and which one of us as an adult would want to go back and re-experience those painful years of discovery and growth? But I also think northern youth sometimes face social and personal challenges that would rip the heart out of those less brave, whether they are gay or straight.

In my view, the greatest “wrong thinking” is to demonize what doesn’t fit into your personal world view and Mr. Ridpath certainly seems to be doing that, justifying his actions based on his own moral compass, which he apparently believes is superior to everyone else’s.

I think all youth are at risk and our responsibility, society’s responsibility, is to provide education, intervention and support to assist them to deal with the challenges they face.

I would suggest that by singling out gay youth in the manner he has, Mr. Ridpath is hurting, not helping. Homophobia is homophobia, no matter how you dress it up.

Mary-Lou Sutton
Ottawa