Simon Iyyiraq: a strong, loving father

Simon, first I want to say, I love you for who you were, a caring, kind father to our kids.

We learned to love each other as we experienced awful tragedies in our lives. Strangely, we learned to survive, as any other couples do who have problems in their lives. As you often said, life is too short to waste. But we learn as we experience the hardships in our lives.

I wanted to remember you in positive ways and I will, for we had talked and forgiven each other at the last of our days together.

I’m very proud to say to our friends that we have forgiven our church, for we know the church itself is good, but human errors often destroy our faith’s sacred beliefs. You have taught us that we, the owners of these problems, need to see ourselves first.

Once again, thank you Simon for accepting me back, even though I couldn’t control my anger too well once in a while.

But the greatest gift you’ve given me was to accept and love myself, for I had time to think things over not too long ago. I know why you wanted to leave me for a while. I’m glad it happened too, for I am no longer angry at you or the world.

Residential school in Chesterfield was indeed a big lesson for us survivors. It taught us to lose our faith in God for most of us, especially you and me Simon. And we both know that poor communications surely destroy our lives. We had forgotten to seek help from the caring professionals, and for this we need to have more say in Nunavut concerning our health.

Simon, you often wanted to be with your kids Alex and Barbara soon. Your wish was finally granted by our Saviour. And we, your loving wife and kids, accept your wish and we know you’ll be in a peaceful place with them now. I certainly was lucky to have you as a caring, smart husband. For you certainly had a big caring heart, and for this, our living children will be all right.

The greatest gift you have given me was to love and accept myself, so that when someone asks for forgiveness, I’ll gladly grant it. For God never abandons his children of this world, in their most difficult times. We gladly gave you to rest and we know that Alex and Barbara are welcoming you.

Simon, be at peace with yourself now, for you taught me to find out who I was. Forgiveness surely is the best medication in life.

Simon, I love you and the kids love you and will always remember you as a strong, healthy, loving father to us. As always, your loving wife, your Sarpinaq.

Celine Iyyiraq
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